That was not a surreptitious glance at Xander's hands for, perhaps, some telltale flash of precious metal. It really wasn't. Totally random glance. Honest.

"So you and Bridge got together in the past," he says slowly, "and at some point between now and the future are having a daughter."

Yes, he's rehashing a little bit. Just for thoroughness's sake, because -- "So can I safely assume this isn't a casual thing?"